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Sexual fun and games, tips, tricks and advice to set your mind at ease, and learning things the hard way.
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Well it is the _sex_ tree, and while it may be more, a take on the tree of knowledge.
We are talking about the devil, temptation,
pleasure , and well
Lustthen anything else. we're mainly
top heavy, So i'll leave you balance the right out. with a little more knowledge.
*wink*
So if your
going to get good, you might as well learn to enjoy it, and make the most of it, in all it's forms.
Of course there's more to fun, and games, mixing tantra, tarot and well sex, is going to
get you unearthing all end of stones, and well sex is not without risk, or is that
purely the mental aspect's. connections been and gone, more the breaking and holding
back. the physical's easy to deal with, precautions matter, so play safe, and tempt
others to do the same.
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A word of warning, when your tied down in chains - prone, if you've stipulated
protection, and the women refuses. that's technically classed as rape if she
inserts you into the vagina, shame they forget that one. If no consent
is given, and you thought women couldn't do it - think again.
exceptions to every rule, so know your partner, and well know your bounds. incidentally
if your in a concentual relationship, especially one with a bdsm variety. if accidents
happen, then the degree of consent across the relationship helpful, mens rea and
intent. if you didn't intend to harm, which technically i didn't on that occasion, can't say the same about her.
ignorance of youth, and an over enthusiastic Dom, accident's happen and people get
carried away in the moment, for one wrists are fragile take care. the police
will pull any one in for questioning, in my case i wasn't aware the accident had
taken place and I'd just delivered the news about running into an ex, and giving
an athame. so a little bit of spite was in operation, technically she twisted mine
first, also girls. saying not with someone who doesn't fancy me, isn't the
same as saying no, it's more a cue to grovel and pretend to be turned on...
so with that, choose your subs with care. people fall out.
so use you own own judgment, consenting adults is one thing, but remember people
can change their mind, and if you don't trust your partner don't do it. grudes and
accidents can lead to complications if your partner is in a spiteful mood. (ditch
these or even better avoid in the first instance, failing to trust your instinct
will be a mistake in the long run)
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aloe vera is a naturally occuring antibiotic, antibiotics kill some strains of bactiria.
the skins can absorb bactria and or other infections.
Antibiotics DO NOT kill viruses ONLY Bacteria . ironically it in itself was a bacteria
as fleming discovered penicllin by accident.
while the cow pox virus, solved small pox virus. by introducing the body to suposeldy
less severe version. anyone spot a pattern forming? as aniviruals predominatly,
buy the body some time..
Eitherway good hygine is important, as is safe sex. when anything can happen.
Know your body, and learn to tell the differences.
need a photo of what it looks like try
dermatlas
If you get red spots, are you most likely looking at a virus.
while
white is perhaps harmless blocked sebum glands? is it fordyce spots?
or something else? is it white sebum gue, or clear like the herpes and cold soar
virus...
Who can tell, and how can you be reall sure if you haven't been checked?
Describing your issues to a gum clinic, and/or mastering clinicial terminolgy and/or
doing your own research on the net, and/or put the experts to the test. if anyone
can be sure that is!
Remember people are lax on definitions and term, including the experts at
times. whats worse, if you look at photos people are saying things are the same,
and they in fact might not be! depending on how picky you are when it comes to granularity
and all.
Ulcers: ulcers appear as craters
on the skin and represent a full-thickness loss of skin (epidermis). There is frequently
a crust, clear liquid (serum) or pus in the crater.
Papules: papules are small (less
than 1cm diameter) lesions (lumps) raised above the skin surface.
Plaques: plaques are raised, flat-topped
lesions, greater than 1cm in diameter.
external resources
identification article by dr john dean
mens health
on identifying the causes
random point:
to check out a theory i did a search and it seems some swedish researches identified
found that the body produces an
antibacterial peptide, called LL-37, that helps prevent
urinary tract infections
this has me debating the issue on reiki and
what the women produces, in her vaginal fluids and the power of the mind, and meditation
when it comes to healing.
as some reports on hypnosis and the latency outbreaks of viruses, look promosing.
however that as it may be you have the old fashioned medical approach of
western drugs, which may or may not work, depending on the condition.
,some people are even experimenting with light therapy/frequency to kill viruses.
So they are vibrated to death by laser! which also makes me think back to vibrational
theories with alternative medicine, but that may be getting to metophysical for
someone who wants to make something go away!
so we may see the different brances working together for once (maybe)
in the meantime learn to play it safe, get checked out and learn the differences.
if its a spot, what colour is the discharge? and remember location matters.
for example pearly penile papules is a condition to be found on the
head of the penis (the helmet) though from reading some sources on the net you
will be forgiven for people thinking that they occur the bottom of the shaft and/or
scrotum. they do not!
location matters, in diagnoses, as does any discharge from spots/blisters or anything
else.
is the discharge white, clear or something else?
blisters and clear could be herpes, white (like achne) around the base and
its perhaps senatious cysts?
Molluscum contagiosum is
the potential one , spread by skin to skin ( last 12-18 months)
virial infection which can be passed on by dirty towals.
nhs direct info (very vague)
patient.co.uk has latest research on for gp's patients as they change their minds..
experts are often behind the curve on what cures, and removes illness on certain
bits of your body, check you research and that of other countries! i assure you
they often use the same conditions, with different names, now what kills viruses?
heat for one, reason for temperature changes in feaver, 101 degrees as i reflect
on how people have tried heat/hot water to break certain things down. no idea
if it works, however warts are frozen off? if memory serves..
what else, if something kills ones virus like achne one, does that have effect on
the other similer conditions elsewhere? as people start experimenting with facial
products on their other bits!
this isn't without its risks, and or pain aspects! but if your doing your own research,
you have to consult medical people, and then look to other none expensive cures
like DIET
iIMMUNE SYSTEMS, and or the effect of diet and the change in the body should not
go unoticed, especially when trying to get to the bottom of an outbreak.
what's its lifecycle, when it starts with one spot and goes to many, and what about
the idea that the body isolates it in cysts and keeps it seperate from the body,
sure removing it might get you safe once, but what if it breaks and spreads? is
that the reason for the change, and the differences in number ebtween people, and
why years later it can break out?
why stress is a factor, and why anyone who says its nothing to worry about and or
their is no cure, could be pissing in the wind, as after all their is always a cure
to removing a problem, if only we learn how, and its often one individual which
comes up with an answer, and the greats worked at home, and didn't have expensive
labs and or tools and its wasn't that long ago, your best bet is consult the experts,
get their view, and their cure
though i'm starting to suspect no know, that their are viruses/bacteria out their
that they don't have a handle on, but other people do.
because its myths and legends as far too many fail to consult professionals if they
have an issue.
though so much crap is talked about on either side, and or repeated by everyone,
including me.
try and identify the source, the history and break it down, and if it worked with
someone else, you might get lucky. but the only things known? for sure are perhaps
mainstream drugs and or trials which have held up to lots of tries. this of course
shouldn't replace the knowlege of thousands of cultures, instinct and people when
it comes to taking something, or something something.
if anything, you might be tempted to change your diet, and or get something on instinct.
which is perhaps a clue on some level you know you need it! its perhaps not
best to fight this, but don't be a stranger to the other two.
also don't assume doctors know everything, i know they don't which is the problem
as i know i know nothing, and when i can see flaws in their testomony, i want to
go and hide, as this is just the begining of knowlege, so with that work out what
you have, AND TALK ABOUT IT! AND THE CURE, WHAT WORKED WHAT DIDN'T (Helth care people
too!)
as people respect honesty, and not being blown off, on an assumption! which is very
dangerous to make, based on the speed of information, being passed around.
the world needs to learn, to find something out, and then pass it on to other culures
and other regions, we sometimes forget other counties find things out first, and
likewise we ogten forget to go btw. did you know this!
compare the research, the knowlege, the ideas, and don't assume because something
sounds stupid it is! yhings needn't be complicated we just fear you need millions
and a lab to cure anything, its not actually true! sometimes expensive toys detract
from the most basic of ingredients the human mind!
other then that, your on your own, anyone assuming a blanket ban on something, should
be regarded with sceptism, if anything its almost hard to rule anything out, when
you compare the research from other sources, and you go maybe instead.
other then that accuracy and precision when it comes to recounting what you did,
recording it, and distinguishing between other peoples crap. learn to ask the right
question! and above all search on it!
medical textbooks and teachers have been known to be wrong! and so have i! in my
own career, though one would hope on the law of averages they would get some things
right! then again, not all "experts" are created equal, when it comes to that...
and if you want to be depressed or enlightened or inspired further watch House.
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Make sure you know your limits. have a safeword, while playing Something like ardvark or something equally obscure, if the word no and or yes is going to interfear
in your role play.
remmeber once your chained down, and on the bed prone, there is not a lot you can
do to protect yourself and your at the mercy of who ever your playing with.
so enjoy it while you can, ahh never do deep heat on those bits, it kills btw and
if you put something on that stings, its going to sting for awhile. so you might
want to refrane and try for something more spitiual instead.
Alternativly perhaps the more phycolgical
advantage of the smarty's game, as can
you keep it up and conetrate that mind, while being distracted for long enough?
while the other plays and or teaes, just don't drop it...
other then that back to pain, not ever one can substain pain, and it doesn't take
much to leave marks. especially on me. It took weeks to loose the bruises from a one
night stand, and that was just an over excited goth girl, who was too drunk,
and despite not being chained down, some of those women are scary and what can i
say, alcahol deadons the pain, until the next morning, and it looks like you've
been tortured to death.
never was one for nipple clamps, the pain kicks in too quick, and i need them off,
though perhaps your better? women seem to be able to handle/enjoy the pain more,
and dr andrews (the lovers guide) seems to agree on that one. the secrets of massage
is a very good guide when it comes to knowing how to play with each others bits,
shall we say...
Other then that, no means no. assuming thats what they said. some women are prone
to say something else, and then reinvent the phrasing. i.e "ask me later"
or "not with someone who doesn't fancy me". then next thing you know, they are crying
i said no, when you confront them directly and or head on. it's anoying and pisses
people off, as you have to learn to be straight with people, and sometimes this
takes time. saying no, will be second nature, and on the same token it seems
to make you say yes more too, odd that one.
Anyway if you can't trust your partner you perhaps shouldn't be doing it, and frankly
anyone who can not give a straight answer and looks indecisivie and or is prone
to emotional displays should be avoided
entirely. as its not worth the hastle in
the long run.
i knew one women who got married, because of guilt and well it only lasted 10 months
and he was so much younger that those flaws and those fears were always going to
rip them apart eventually, and then she follows the same pattern again, not everone
learns to take responsibility for their lives, and to give a straight answer, which
is a shame it only hurts you in the long run.
to my knowledge tape recording every conversation
or getting your sexual partners to sign disclaimers is perhaps a little overboard, but i've known and or heard
of people who have done the slave contract thing, (bdsm side) and its called marriage
in some cultures. slavery isn't an option and the sub is the one who tends to be
manipulating the game. beware these people, as they tend to lie and give you want
you want to hear, and thats not conductive of a long term relationship, other then
fun and games. just protect your assets! (thats your bits, and your property!)
In fact perhaps celibacy
is really a good calling card after all, mealy for the haste sake, i jest we love to please,
and titillate the rest meh take it or leave it, truth be told. if the sex is hot,
you don't need toys or anything else...
no one's listened to it's usage, too many
lies, and double calls, have a safe word, if your doing the bdsm side, if not. well
respect your partners wishes, and remember what you consent to, is what the law,
will turn a blind eye to.
I could lecture on virtues of condoms, but the you
have a brain, I suggest you use
it, it's more fun to be sure of something, then just assume. don't think, don't
believe, know. which is why regular check ups are a must. and if you've ever been
dragged down to the chemist because a women's forgot her pill, and the condom slipped
you know what i mean... tests don't hurt (well one did) but the bigger brush
which gets inserted in the eye, is well no longer used... numbers at the bottom..
don't loose sleep over it. also had unprotected sex, after weighing the odds with
someone who had hep-c. perhaps a confidence thing, and well there was no risk there.
but it played on the mind after relationship was over, the smarter and more responsible
move would have been to be checked before going into the other relationship. (negative
test, all clean) still confused about the women and her random thing... but well
i trusted her, surely not all infections are people cheating...
KNOW INSTEAD
this is the devil's world, and we don't lower ourselves, to fearing, and thinking,
and well that count's for everything on this site! life in general, your choice,
now do as you feel, and feel unto the end.
and your expected to use it, (your instinct, and your logical
side) do the maths, if it feels right go for it, if not don't and make your call.
Judge the person, and screw the judgement call, good sex, love and passion
should never be sniffed at in this day and age. Its in short supply, and even
a moment can last a lifetime.
and when in the movement, do what feels
natural, what other people feel, think or feel is unnatural unwarranted and well don't think, just do. your their to live for the moment, we could be all dead tommorow, and you'll only regret it, assuming
you have no issues, or doubt as you have to process those out, so if that takes
a month, years or a day, or even an hour. go with that. each of us adjusts, and
you learn more in a moment then you do, in a lifetime. oh yes, people opening up,
tears, crying, be tactful its not the most convenient time to say anything ow. So
rule one, always be honest, and you'll be surprised how worse the girls are then
the boys on that score. you will find someone who is willing to try anything, and
the more you talk about it, the easier it gets. so talk, and share, and do.
If you don't play safe and something happens, then you only have yourself
to blame, so take responsibility, weigh the odds, and then play the cards
your dealt. know your limits, and where you want to go with it, if your on the same
wave length communicate it, its only words, and if your not speaking the same language,
use the universal language of body, just don;t complicate it with the psycic thing,
that gets odd, and embarrassing on how to take something.. lol hopefully never again.
Incidentally you can see from the sex tree how quickly people link together, so by signing up, and getting your partners on, you help to highlight the maths,
to the young, nieive and stupid with sex links, and also realise the stats, have
perhaps been blown out of all proportion, a lot of fear tactics, not to say it's
unwarranted but you have to play the numbers game, and remember the more you do,
the more you play, the more things can go wrong, and mostly it's excess baggage,
trauma, and the risk of shutting off, so best not dwell on that, and proceed with
an open heart.
Incidentally you get more secure the more you do, or at least success breeds confidence,
though it can also make you cold instead. and you learn to be yourself, which
means your quicker at deciding. if only they could have taught me this the first
time round, i would have been better off.
So I'm not sure how anyone could/or should get married
without having learnt to be them
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Now where you stand and
express
yourself, with out limit, and in full trust and security and make love not war,
fears will eat you up and stop you enjoying the pleasure, now pressure, and well
time is infinite, so fuck like bunnies, or make love, the mood sets the scene, one
prefers cuddles, and the others more rampant and I'm sure there's a joke in there,
somewhere...
Read Around. Philosophy is the Spice of
Life
Or The human Rights
Act
or the book extract: God
is Evil, The Devil is Good
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